This weekend I met with a friend for coffee. We found a couple of "must haves" that were high quality and gorgeous. Of course, first we solved the worlds challenges over a cup or two of caffeine sunshine. It is so important to surround yourself with friends that support you especially in these caustic times. When you fail, or make a mistake, they are the first ones to say, "next time" or "it's okay we are not perfect". Learn the gift of apology too. It is healing to the soul for you and everyone. Heal thyself and others.
Additionally, social media, the press and some souls are constantly filling the world with negative messages. I often wonder why people spew their discontent over social media? Do they really believe anyone truly cares? Or when someone admired and famous writes a beautiful piece read by millions only to spoil the message with a political bent or rant. The message is suddenly lost and dampened rather than spreading worthiness and kindness. Frankly, social media is a way to gather, spread helpful information or just too laugh out loud. I rather laugh often or look at an animal photo. And, of course, I know what is going on around the world but why drain ones life energy into something I cannot control? Bottom line - a computer is not your best friend, it is a useful tool to learn or disseminate pertinent knowledge. Connection is the ultimate key and if you are missing human connection, then find a way to a new path. Block the negative. Life is short, so find beauty while spreading hope and light.
Thought Catalog! 20 Realities You Must Accept Before You Can Truly Live Your Best Life: Here is a splash of the 20 Realities:
People come and go.Every Lesson has a price to pay.
Keep people who care about you close to your heart.
Grass is greener where you water it.
You can't please everyone.
You. Need. Connection.
No.One. Cares - Stop complaining!
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Wit & Wisdom Fall PantQuality, beautifully crafted. Great legging fit. I went a size up for comfort. Lots of prints and color. Plus the price is right. Pair with a colorful sweater, Everlane Flats, or your favorite boots.
|Wit & Wisdom Ab-Solution Skinny Ponte Pants|
Raspberry Ice Cream Sweater
Cashmere! On Sale. Relaxed fit. I went down a size. More importantly, the color is stunning. My girlfriend said she wants to eat it! Serious.
|Vince Weekend V-Neck Cashmere Sweater|
There you have it. A couple of lovely pieces to augment your Forever Chic Style wardrobe. I hope you are finding ways to connect to others on a daily basis. Find peace within yourself and celebrate your life. Everyday is a blessing with joy and beauty around. One final note, lets all hear it for Ellen DeGeneres who in on Tuesday, October 8th monologue reminded us all to be kind to everyone! Do it! Be kind, be thoughtful and help spread The Kindness Movement.
"Fashion is about something that comes from within you" Ralph Lauren
Until Next Time! Be Kind.